Over 361 million turkeys were sacrificed for Thanksgiving. Since the turkey didn't find peace or thanks, we definitely should. We are told after all, that it is a day of peace and thanks. But does it really achieve that?
When several people share their individual and separate Thanksgiving experiences with you, and they are not pleasant ones, you take notice. It seems downright good manners are limited these days. Some families pitch in and everyone is involved in the food preparation. Some have things done ahead of time and allow for a happy hour. Some are helter skelter, loud and the children run rampant. Often you wonder, 'how DID these people marry?"
My holidays include a happy hour when I do them. A time for the hostess, family and friends to talk. One on one time. Often the family and friends would pitch in as the meal was ready to serve. The meal would be an orderly change of food. Some families serve food one direction ensuring that everyone have an opportunity to share in the bounty. Some just take it for themselves and say heck with the rest of the bunch. Some are sad because the year did not include any togetherness. It is a photo op time. You know it. You dread it.
Whatever your situation, make it a holiday you enjoy. Start your own group if your day isn't a great one. Set the ground rules.
Stand your ground.
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